More Than Sex: Ep. 1 – Behind The Orgasm
Today’s Topic: Behind the Orgasm
In this episode, I’m going to break down the mechanics of the orgasm and share tips on how to set yourself up to experience fully embodied pleasure… The topics I’ll be covering today include:
- Stats around orgasms
- The orgasm gap and why it matters
- What stops us from achieving orgasms
- Creating ritual space (and why it’s important)
- pre-foreplay vs. foreplay
- The importance of feeling vs. thinking
- Techniques to prepare your body
- Celebrating pleasure – not just sex or orgasms
- What to do if you feel rushed, whether you begin to rush yourself, or you feel rushed by your partner
And more!
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Links for this episode:
Research Article: Sexuality, without that mirror’: The role of embodied practice in the development of sexual potential by Tarryn Ellison
Book: Come as You Are by Dr. Emily Nagowski
Book: Becoming Cliterate by Laurie Mintz
Book: Tell Me What You Want by Dr. Justin Lehmiller
Additional Resources
Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Site: AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists)
Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance)
Site: TASHRA’s Research
Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality
Site: Center for Positive Sexuality
Site: Sexual Health Alliance
Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University
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Additional Resources:
Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)
About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
Reid’s Safer Sex Elevator Speech
