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Hey there! I had a crazy week! From watching porn for 3 days straight with 60 other people, learning about SESTA/FOSTA and how it’s changing TOS and harming everyone in the sexuality field from models to therapists and educators. Then, we start getting deep into how to talk to your partner(s) about consent […]
Hey there folx! Today’s smut review is brought to you by the late great William Shakespeare! One of my favorite bookstores finds is a great commentary and breakdown by Pauline Kiernan about all the filthy meanings behind Shakespeare’s most iconic sonnets and prose. I add my own two cents as well 😉 Fair […]
Hey there guys! This week has been a doozy… Can we sit and chat about it? In this episode, I kick and back and get vulnerable for a bit… D/s can get tough when balancing an increasingly busy life, even for those of us who are veterans in the BDSM world and my Dom […]
How about a history lesson? I promise it won’t be boring! Get your fruit snacks and juice boxes folx… this is a history lesson you won’t forget 😉 (Warning… THIS IS FOR ADULTS ONLY!) We get down and dirty with Ancient Egyptian sexuality, Greek and Roman sex tokens, the girls who bought Gladiator sweat, Victorian […]
Grab a drink and chill with Dr. K and Big Daddy while we reminisce about our first play party and dungeon experiences, a deeper dive into the exhibition kink, tips for finding your own munches, communities, and virtual events, and how to open the door to conversation with your partner about exploring new sides […]
If you researched anal or explored your sexuality more since the lockdowns, you are not alone! It’s clear that since the lockdown happened, we have spent a LOT of time with ourselves, and let’s face it… the mind enjoys wandering to interesting places. Let’s take a look at a recent scientific study […]
Ok, so we all have heard of squirting… for some, it’s a mythical unicorn. For others, they just want to know how to control the damn flood gates. We see toys aimed at the magical G-Spot, capable of bringing a female to her knees, only to discover that not everyone can squirt by jack-hammering the […]
Happy Valentine’s Day, Kinksters! Today, I thought I’d share with you a VERY intimate chat with my Dom, Big Daddy! We get personal about lessons in D/s, and Big Daddy let’s me grill him about his honest perspectives and insights of being a 24/7 pleasure Dom. Kick back and stay awhile! Big Daddy is […]
In this episode, we get sticky with CInderella’s Prince Charming! I’m so excited to review this book and read the excerpt that inspired me to look at kinks and the taboo with a deeper sense of curiosity! This book is wet, eloquent, and downright just f*cking HOT! It also shows how we often find arousal […]
Good evening, lovelies! In this episode, we are talking about the key elements to building a 24/7 dynamic. It isn’t a secret that stating out in BDSM can seem a little daunting, and for some, the idea of doing it 24/7 sounds like all pain, all the time. This simply is a massive myth […]
In this episode, we talk about No Nuance November and bust some dangerous BDSM and Kink myths recently circulating among the many platforms. I also talk about the idea of Twueism (I highly recommend checking out one of my personal favorite sexuality educators, the phenomenal Sunny Megatron for her insights on Twueism) and why […]
In this episode, I talk to you about simple ways to help ignite that sexual spark, even when you are alone or living through this pandemic with your significant others (s). These are great methods for riding the time between daily life and when you can have your next play session. These can help […]
Hey there, Kinksters! In this episode, I discuss looking at porn and masturbation with a new perspective as a way to enhance your sex life with your partner rather than harm it. I discuss statistics, how porn and masturbation have been a part of our human existence since ancient times, and why it’s a […]
Let’s get real. Just because we are parents doesn’t mean we have lost our kinky side. It just means we have to play it safe and with much more consideration to how we display our submission or dominance to our partner and still maintain a strong bond and an amazing parent. In this episode, […]
What is happening on Tiktok to the kink community? Let’s take a deep dive and discuss… I share my experience with getting my 60k + following account banned and how I’ve bounced back, and discuss the recent announcement of the banning of the download and updates of the TikTok App. Also, I share information […]
Hey there, kinksters! In this podcast, I share my journey as a submissive, the different subsets I identify with and why, and the importance of exploration in your individual journey in BDSM. Grab a drink and kick back! I take a deep dive into pet space, little space, subspace, and more! Psss…. Don’t forget […]
This podcast, brought to you by Dr. K, Holistic Sexuality Educator, fitness trainer, model, and promoter of erotic intelligence, is an honest and down to Earth deep dive into the world of Sex, BDSM, and alternative lifestyle. Dr. K. is a 24/7 submissive, performer, erotica author, sexuality researcher and scholar.
Topics will range from sex education, non-monogamy, kink, BDSM, fetishes, kinky travels, sex toys, experiences, OnlyFans, SSC, Shibari, and so much more!
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