QA with Dr. K! I swear, I have the best fans and followers around 🙂 Y’all send in some of the best, most passionate questions that deserve much more in-depth answers than what I can often convey in a single comment or 1-minute clip. In this episode, I’m going to discuss some questions submitted from fans that range from methods and communication techniques for bringing up the idea of kink to partner, get in-depth about the exciting dynamics of brats and their tammers, and the more therapeutic aspects of D/s for anxiety and panic attacks.
Links for this episode:
Article: How BDSM Might Benefit Your Health and Improve Your Relationship
Dissertation: Negotiating Self: An Exploration of Women ‘ s Perceptions of Their Feminist and Submissive Identities Article: BRAT BDSM: Everything You Want to Know About Brats Article: A Dom’s Guide to Panic Attacks and BDSM (caring for their sub) _____________________
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Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)
About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
Reid’s Safer Sex Elevator Speech
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