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Tiffany’s Secret Diary is an intimate, behind the scenes look at my journey in photography, real life experiences, spicy costume designs, erotic poetry, and more.

Artistic Edge Magazine and it’s companion podcast was launched to give a home to sex education articles, erotica, erotic book reviews, and showcase other author’s amazing work.

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Support comes in many ways and I can’t create content without amazing people like you! You can show your love through a subscription to Artistic Edge Magazine, Tiffany’s Secret Diary, Patreon, buying me a cup of tea, or purchasing something from my wearable art studio, Esty, or my Amazon Shop.Want something spicier? Check out my other links here.

Recent Posts

The Down & Dirty: Money Shots
S2-Ep10: The Show is Back! Updates, The Vibe Expo, and More!
Exploring Substack and Medium: A Direct Comparison of Features, Benefits, and Monetization Options for Those in the Field of Sexuality and Erotic Content Creation
The Never King by Nikki St. Crowe – An Erotica Book Review
S2. Ep. 8: Interview with Award Winning Kink Educator & Author, Dr. TammyJo Eckhart!

The Submissive Next Door Podcast

S2-Ep10: The Show is Back! Updates, The Vibe Expo, and More!
S2. Ep. 9 - Dr. Stefani Goerlich - Kink, Vanilla, and everything in between!
S2. - Ep. 8: Special Guest TammyJo Eckhart, Award Winning Kink Educator and Author
S2-Ep7: Guest Interview - Author & Founder of Submissive Guide
S2-Ep6: Special Guests: Christian Pan on Sex, Life, & Erotica

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★𝑬𝒅𝒖𝒄𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏, 𝑹𝒆𝒔𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒄𝒆𝒔 ＆ 𝑬𝒎𝒑𝒐𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒎𝒆𝒎𝒕★🏳️‍🌈
𝑫𝒓. 𝑻𝒊𝒇𝒇𝒂𝒏𝒚 “𝑲.”, 𝑬𝒅.𝑫.
𝐻𝑜𝑙𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑖𝑐 𝐶𝑆𝐸 | 𝐵𝑜𝑎𝑟𝑑 𝐶𝑒𝑟𝑡𝑖𝑓𝑖𝑒𝑑 𝑆3𝑥𝑜𝑙𝑜𝑔𝑖𝑠𝑡 | 𝐴𝑢𝑡ℎ𝑜𝑟

I am thrilled to announce that I am one of 14 aut

I am thrilled to announce that I am one of 14 authors whose bis3xual stories will be in this new anthology put together by award-winning erotica author, @christianpanerotica ! Did I mention it’s available on Kindle unlimited!? Check it out now!

New article out now! This is a topic that rarely g

New article out now! This is a topic that rarely gets talked about in the public eye and yet affects both creators and their followers everyday. Full article out now on Ink & Lavender - My Secret Diary.

My P^tr3on just got a massive overhaul and I’m s

My P^tr3on just got a massive overhaul and I’m so happy with how it’s turning out! If you haven’t checked it out lately, now is a great time! Articles, photography, behind-the-scenes, short stories, IRL, Vlogs, Tutorials, spicy audios… and a NEW PODCAST is launching later this month! With the help of my PR team, there has been a lot in the works!

New article on my magazine just posted! A closer l

New article on my magazine just posted! A closer look at why audio spice has become such a game changer for some, and why it’s growing in popularity.
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#pleasure #selfcare #bookish #sexualhealthmagazine #sexualhealthmonth #intimacy #spicybooks

In one of my latest article for Artist Edge Magazi

In one of my latest article for Artist Edge Magazine, I spill the tea about how I became a board-certified s3xologist and more! Check it out now on Substack!
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#sexualityeducation #sexcoach #sexologist #intimacycoach #pleasure #intimacy

Thank you to my favorite magazine for giving me th

Thank you to my favorite magazine for giving me the opportunity to not just attend this event, but illuminate the positive experiences shared by so many at @vibeshowofficial ! Link to the article is in my stories and on my official Facebook page! Check it out!
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#sexpositiveeducation #sexualityeducation #writersofinstagram #pleasureactivism #pleasure #intimacy

Season 2, Episode 10 just dropped! I am so happy t

Season 2, Episode 10 just dropped! I am so happy to be getting back to podcasting! Check it out now wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts! 🖤
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#sexpodcast #sexologist #sexpositivepodcast #podcastersofinstagram #pleasure

The @vibeshowofficial was an incredible experience

The @vibeshowofficial was an incredible experience! I met industry experts for the first time in person who had been following me since 2020, got to chat with pleasure product designers who are making a difference in the world of accessible products for EVERY BODY, ran into the incredible @susanbratton who is equally as mesmerizing in person as she was in my podcast, had the opportunity to catch workshops delivered by the talented @luvbites.co , @melanieruthrose and so many more! I can’t wait to share the write up along with all the product reviews and new podcast episodes over the next few weeks!
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#vibeexpo #vibeexpo2024 #sexpositivepodcast #sexpositiveeducation #pleasure #pleasureactivist #pleasureactivism #writerslife #podcastlife

Nothing like an event in hollywood … 🎥✨ .

Nothing like an event in hollywood … 🎥✨
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#vibeexpo #vibeexpo2024 #reels #pleasureactivism #model #podcastlife #writerlife #photooftheday #pose

Heading to the @vibeshowofficial in Hollywood to g

Heading to the @vibeshowofficial in Hollywood to get my badge and research for an article for my favorite magazine! 🙌🏼
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#vibeexpo2024 #vibeexpo #sexpositiveeducation #sexpositivepodcast #writerslife

I am SO excited to bring you my latest interview w

I am SO excited to bring you my latest interview with the incredible Dr. Stefani Goerlich! She’s here to chat about k*nk, vanilla, and everything in between! You don’t want to miss this episode! Out now on Spotify, Apple, and wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts!
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#sexpodcast #sexology #sexualhealth #sexpositivity #podcastersofinstagram

🎪The Dark Cirque is coming… can you handle th

🎪The Dark Cirque is coming… can you handle the heat under the big top? ✨
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Welcome to the next collaboration project with the other artists from the spicy creator’s club of Patreon! I am so excited to share my newest🔥short story with you! Link to my public post is in my stories and archived in my Projects highlight!

I am so happy I got to chat with the award-winning

I am so happy I got to chat with the award-winning educator and published author, Dr. TammyJo Eckhart! She is an incredible multi-faceted woman, historian, and head of her poly household! The podcast is out now on all platforms!
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#sexpodcast #sexpositivity #podcastersofinstagram #authorsofinstagram

I’ve been hard at working making new reviews and

I’ve been hard at working making new reviews and blog posts! Two new reviews are up on my blog and Patreon featuring @geeky_sex_toys ! The link to my blog is in my stories!
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Emotional Intelligence can be a magical thing. Whe

Emotional Intelligence can be a magical thing. When we exercise and grow our emotional intelligence, we become more aware of, in more control, and better able to express emotions in a healthy manner. In other words, it is the capacity to handle relationships appropriately and empathetically.
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In relationships, emotional intelligence translates into the ability to be in touch with your own emotions as well as those of your partner(s).
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A person’s capacity for empathy and ability to be present and talk about emotions in a healthy and loving way are both components of emotional intelligence (and a huge turn-on!).
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Here are just some of the ways that emotional intelligence can be demonstrated in a relationship (and this can be mono, poly, FWB, close friendships, etc.). Becoming more aware and intentional with these experiences can help ignite intimacy and create meaningful experiences.
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What is your favorite form of emotional intelligence?
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#relationships #emotionalintelligence #boundariesarehealthy #sexology #sexpodcast #sexpositiveculture

Treasure Boxes this month were so much fun to make

Treasure Boxes this month were so much fun to make!

Each one is curated for my Patrons and contains:
✨one of my favorite books (either fiction or educational)
✨unique items I’ve found through travels or small businesses I support
✨items from brands I work with
✨a handwritten card
✨a piece of original mini art
✨a limited edition sticker
✨and something magick

Thank you to all my amazing supporters for your enthusiasm for education and art! It is because of all of you I’m able to continue the journey of pleasure activism by creating, writing, podcasting, and educating. 💕
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#sexpositiveculture #sexpodcast #artistsoninstagram #pleasureactivism

Official stickers are here and I’m giving away a

Official stickers are here and I’m giving away a few! 🎉🙌🏼 Patreon gets first dibs, and the rest will be available on Gumroad and Etsy!
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If you want to score a freebie:

🦋 Follow @kipani.life and @kipani1021
🦋Like this post
🦋Share this post to your stories
🦋Comment below with what podcast topic or art project you would like to see next!
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Winners will be chosen at random on Monday, Aug 21st!

Let’s recap… yes I could let any one of these $Let’s recap… yes I could let any one of these things go but I’d like to put into context just how much a creator has to deal with on any single day and why I continue to fight for kindness and positivity. . This is just a fraction of the last couple days and why making content has become difficult. Within 12 hours of setting up my art shop on square space to house my PAINTINGS, I am banned from stripe because they don’t want to be associated with my art or the fact that I’m a board-certified s*xologist and educator. . I also was just told by instagram that because I posted my paintings on my @that.lit.witch account, that account will no longer be shown to non-followers because they see my PAINTINGS as potential offensive. . I’ve had scammers and fake accounts popping up left and right causing my followers strife with messages and DMs. . I’ve spent hours submitting lengthy forms to TT to get the accounts removed on copywrite violations because they keep coming back and saying no violations are found when I report them for impersonation. . I’ve hired a legal team to go after other accounts and scrub the internet on my behalf and be told they can’t do anything about certain types of accounts that are doing damage out there and I’ll have to work with the platforms myself. . I’m accused of being attention seeker for posting a small video showing my hair because I was genuinely in love with how healthy it felt after my treatment and wanted to support my good friend and her salon (I’m sorry Nikki for that jerk and he’s been blocked.) . Finally.. that little rich girl problems comment… SERIOUSLY!? I came from a home where my mom worked her tail off to MAKE my clothes because we couldn’t afford new ones. Christmas wrapping was made of newspaper and my mom still made us feel like we we had everything we needed. I’ve worked multiple jobs since I was 16, I put myself through school while raising my kids, and I still work 15 hours a day 7 days a week. Sure. Rich girl problems 🙄 . This doesn’t include the countless comments I delete that are harassing, rude, or disrespectful to others, or saying I deserve this because I am in the public eye. NO HUMAN DESERVES THIS.$

In my newest article series, I’m sharing my rese

In my newest article series, I’m sharing my research and personal experiences with growth on social media in the field of s3xology and modeling. This first article is out now on Patreon and Artistic Edge Magazine. In the article I discuss everything from tools and content creation, tips and tricks, and my own personal experiences in growth on IG.
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🔗 is in my stories or check out Artistic Edge Magazine medium.com/artistic-edge-magazine
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For those who want a deeper dive or want to see my personal analytics over the past 3 years with how I’ve built a full time income, I’m going to be hosting a webinar for Patreons very soon! Details to come!
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#sexology #sexpodcast #writersofinstagram #fitnessmodel #artisticedgemagazine

🍄So happy with how this painting came out! ✨

🍄So happy with how this painting came out! ✨
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Available on my virtual studio site this week!
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