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Ep. 33 – QA Time Communicating Kinks, Brat dynamics, and Anxiety within D/s

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Ep. 33 – QA Time Communicating Kinks, Brat dynamics, and Anxiety within D/s

QA with Dr. K! I swear, I have the best fans and followers around 🙂 Y’all send in some of the best, most passionate questions that deserve much more…

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★𝑬𝒅𝒖𝒄𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏, 𝑹𝒆𝒔𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒄𝒆𝒔 ＆ 𝑬𝒎𝒑𝒐𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒎𝒆𝒎𝒕★🏳️‍🌈
𝑫𝒓. 𝑻𝒊𝒇𝒇𝒂𝒏𝒚 “𝑲.”, 𝑬𝒅.𝑫.
𝐻𝑜𝑙𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑖𝑐 𝐶𝑆𝐸 | 𝐵𝑜𝑎𝑟𝑑 𝐶𝑒𝑟𝑡𝑖𝑓𝑖𝑒𝑑 𝑆3𝑥𝑜𝑙𝑜𝑔𝑖𝑠𝑡 ＆
𝐾!𝑛𝑘－𝐴𝑓𝑓𝑖𝑟𝑚𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝐼𝑛𝑡𝑖𝑚𝑎𝑐𝑦 𝐶𝑜𝑛𝑠𝑢𝑙𝑡𝑎𝑛𝑡

I’ve been hard at working making new reviews and

I’ve been hard at working making new reviews and blog posts! Two new reviews are up on my blog and Patreon featuring @geeky_sex_toys ! The link to my blog is in my stories!
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Be sure to also use the code kipani-life5 for 5% your order from them

Emotional Intelligence can be a magical thing. Whe

Emotional Intelligence can be a magical thing. When we exercise and grow our emotional intelligence, we become more aware of, in more control, and better able to express emotions in a healthy manner. In other words, it is the capacity to handle relationships appropriately and empathetically.
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In relationships, emotional intelligence translates into the ability to be in touch with your own emotions as well as those of your partner(s).
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A person’s capacity for empathy and ability to be present and talk about emotions in a healthy and loving way are both components of emotional intelligence (and a huge turn-on!).
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Here are just some of the ways that emotional intelligence can be demonstrated in a relationship (and this can be mono, poly, FWB, close friendships, etc.). Becoming more aware and intentional with these experiences can help ignite intimacy and create meaningful experiences.
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What is your favorite form of emotional intelligence?
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#relationships #emotionalintelligence #boundariesarehealthy #sexology #sexpodcast #sexpositiveculture

Treasure Boxes this month were so much fun to make

Treasure Boxes this month were so much fun to make!

Each one is curated for my Patrons and contains:
✨one of my favorite books (either fiction or educational)
✨unique items I’ve found through travels or small businesses I support
✨items from brands I work with
✨a handwritten card
✨a piece of original mini art
✨a limited edition sticker
✨and something magick

Thank you to all my amazing supporters for your enthusiasm for education and art! It is because of all of you I’m able to continue the journey of pleasure activism by creating, writing, podcasting, and educating. 💕
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#sexpositiveculture #sexpodcast #artistsoninstagram #pleasureactivism

Official stickers are here and I’m giving away a

Official stickers are here and I’m giving away a few! 🎉🙌🏼 Patreon gets first dibs, and the rest will be available on Gumroad and Etsy!
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If you want to score a freebie:

🦋 Follow @kipani.life and @kipani1021
🦋Like this post
🦋Share this post to your stories
🦋Comment below with what podcast topic or art project you would like to see next!
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Winners will be chosen at random on Monday, Aug 21st!

Let’s recap… yes I could let any one of these $Let’s recap… yes I could let any one of these things go but I’d like to put into context just how much a creator has to deal with on any single day and why I continue to fight for kindness and positivity. . This is just a fraction of the last couple days and why making content has become difficult. Within 12 hours of setting up my art shop on square space to house my PAINTINGS, I am banned from stripe because they don’t want to be associated with my art or the fact that I’m a board-certified s*xologist and educator. . I also was just told by instagram that because I posted my paintings on my @that.lit.witch account, that account will no longer be shown to non-followers because they see my PAINTINGS as potential offensive. . I’ve had scammers and fake accounts popping up left and right causing my followers strife with messages and DMs. . I’ve spent hours submitting lengthy forms to TT to get the accounts removed on copywrite violations because they keep coming back and saying no violations are found when I report them for impersonation. . I’ve hired a legal team to go after other accounts and scrub the internet on my behalf and be told they can’t do anything about certain types of accounts that are doing damage out there and I’ll have to work with the platforms myself. . I’m accused of being attention seeker for posting a small video showing my hair because I was genuinely in love with how healthy it felt after my treatment and wanted to support my good friend and her salon (I’m sorry Nikki for that jerk and he’s been blocked.) . Finally.. that little rich girl problems comment… SERIOUSLY!? I came from a home where my mom worked her tail off to MAKE my clothes because we couldn’t afford new ones. Christmas wrapping was made of newspaper and my mom still made us feel like we we had everything we needed. I’ve worked multiple jobs since I was 16, I put myself through school while raising my kids, and I still work 15 hours a day 7 days a week. Sure. Rich girl problems 🙄 . This doesn’t include the countless comments I delete that are harassing, rude, or disrespectful to others, or saying I deserve this because I am in the public eye. NO HUMAN DESERVES THIS.$

In my newest article series, I’m sharing my rese

In my newest article series, I’m sharing my research and personal experiences with growth on social media in the field of s3xology and modeling. This first article is out now on Patreon and Artistic Edge Magazine. In the article I discuss everything from tools and content creation, tips and tricks, and my own personal experiences in growth on IG.
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🔗 is in my stories or check out Artistic Edge Magazine medium.com/artistic-edge-magazine
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For those who want a deeper dive or want to see my personal analytics over the past 3 years with how I’ve built a full time income, I’m going to be hosting a webinar for Patreons very soon! Details to come!
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#sexology #sexpodcast #writersofinstagram #fitnessmodel #artisticedgemagazine

🍄So happy with how this painting came out! ✨

🍄So happy with how this painting came out! ✨
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Available on my virtual studio site this week!
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#artistsoninstagram #mushrooms #model #painting #artist #acrylicpainting

An excellent post from @thatsexchick 🖤 . In a w

An excellent post from @thatsexchick 🖤
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In a world that often tries to tame and suppress our sensual nature, reclaiming the erotic is an act of rebellion. 🙏🏻

It is a testament to our innate vitality and an affirmation of our right to experience pleasure, connection, and fulfillment. By embracing our erotic selves, we tap into a wellspring of life force that nourishes our souls and ignites our passions.

It is a force that flows through our veins, awakening our senses, and igniting the flame of vitality within us.

Contrary to popular belief, the erotic is not simply about sexual pleasure.

It encompasses the vast spectrum of human experience—the tender caress of a loved one, the electric connection between bodies, the passionate exchange of glances that speak volumes without words.

It is the embodiment of aliveness, a celebration of our existence in all its raw and authentic forms.

The erotic is an antidote to the shadows that lurk in the corners of our lives. It banishes the stagnation of routine, inviting us to explore uncharted territories of pleasure and intimacy. It compels us to shed the layers of inhibition and embrace our true desires, unlocking a profound sense of liberation and self-expression.

So, let us revel in the vibrant dance of the erotic. Let us honor our bodies, our desires, and our capacity for profound connection. Let us reject the notion that pleasure is frivolous or sinful and instead embrace it as an essential part of our human experience.

What does the erotic mean to you? How do you celebrate and cultivate aliveness in your own life?

#Intimacy #Vitality #Pleasure #Connection #Fulfillment #Passion #couples #Liberation #SelfExpression

This comment really stung because those who have f

This comment really stung because those who have followed me for years know I’ve always been honest about my workouts, having implants, and the self love among nutrition, skin care, and self improvement that it’s taken over a lifetime to get to this point. I had implants a year ago and and that’s been the only surgery I’ve had. I even documented the journey on my YouTube and podcast. I have had no other surgeries because I have a blood clotting disorder and simply am not able to do so. I’ve worked hard with a trainer and cleaned up my diet. I have documented my entire journey on my @kipani_fitness account and on my Facebook. Please do not assume just by looking at one image that there is no way someone can have dramatic change in their life with exercise, nutrition, and perseverance. And since we are being transparent here, I’ll go further. Yes, I’ve had a treatment on my face called Sculptra that boosts collagen production in my face and neck this past month for the first time. I also opted for a small amount of lip injections and I go to a tanning salon once a week. I HAVE NOT had any other surgeries, treatments, or work done and prioritize physical health and feeding my body right. Please please please don’t assume when you see someone’s journey because comments like the one in this post are hurtful when one is being so vulnerable.
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#fitnessjourney #selflove #fitness #selflovejourney #psa #kindnessmatters

Thank you to those that joined the webinar this mo

Thank you to those that joined the webinar this morning! The recording is now available on Patreon & Gumroad! Get your pen and notebook! 📓
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#sexology #sexpositiveeducation #sexpositiveculture

In collaboration with Er*tic Creator’s Club of P

In collaboration with Er*tic Creator’s Club of Patreon, I’ve been hard at work on a special art set for this seasons theme of “Robots” 🤖! I am so happy with how these are turning out and will have a special podcast to accompany it that will only be available on Patreon!
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#cosplay #photooftheday #photographer #podcastersofinstagram

My last Open Office Hour in July is Wed. the 26th

My last Open Office Hour in July is Wed. the 26th at 5:30pm PST / 8:30PM EST

Office Hours are meant to be an open forum to ask questions in a comforting, friendly, safe space. You can ask me almost anything.

This is an inclusive space open to all genders, identities, orientations, and experience levels.

Join my Patreon Community to participate in Live events like this, see the BTS of my work and research, read articles and creative projects before they are published elsewhere, check out my creative process, attend/watch virtual classes and workshops, check out my art from paintings, digital works, and photography, and so much more!

These are just a small handful of the comments I’ve received TODAY. I keep my modeling, fun, personal account separate from this one, but since I recently had a video go viral on this account, I’ve been flooded daily with comments like this. I hate feeling like I have to segment myself out because so many people want to believe a professional at the post-doctorate level can’t possibly look the way I do, or that because I look the way I do I must have a rich spouse. Let me set some things straight.

I have lived on my own since I was 16. I worked hard, graduated valedictorian 2 years early and continued to knock out my degrees to fulfill a dream of becoming a creative writing professor. I suffer with blood clotting condition and ADHD, but refused to believe those disorders would define my life. I got married young and had 3 kids early because it was thought it would be unsafe to have kids later in life. I went through cervical cancer twice, battled my own demons along the way, watched my home and pets burn in a fire, my brother die from AIDS, and still I believe there is good and beauty and pleasure in the world worth fighting tooth and nail for.
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I am sorry to unload like this but I’ve had it up to *here* with this shameful idea that a woman should hide her authenticity. If we cover up, we are prudes, if we show too much we are s**ts, if we have kids we can’t feel s*xy, if we don’t have kids there’s something wrong with us, if we have a career we can’t have fun, and if we have fun we are immature, if we wear makeup and love fashion we are shallow and must have a man supporting us, and if we don’t wear makeup and are in comfy clothes we have “let ourselves go”. We have to be virginal and a n*mph at the same time, we can’t be too smart or too pretty, too muscular or too skinny, too big or too tiny.
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I’m done hiding who I am and what brings me joy and don’t ever want ANYONE to feel the way these humans have made me feel lately.
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Regardless of your profession… if you are a therapist, doctor, waitress, musician, school teacher…. Be yourself and LOVE yourself unapologetically! Wear what brings you power and joy. Be courageous my darlings.

This 💯 @polyphiliablog . Polyamory isn’t for

This 💯 @polyphiliablog
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Polyamory isn’t for everyone. But for those that identify in this way, or any other variation such as mono-poly, open, sw*ngers, to many others I can’t even mention here… you are valid and you are seen. What many others don’t understand is the high level of communication, consent, respect, self-love, trust, and ethics that are mapped out and continuously addressed in these types of relationships can often create stronger relationships. It’s not a “free pass for cheating” and if you go in with that idea, that’s a massive red flag. It’s the idea that love is expansive, experiences are unique, and friendships, just like any other relationship, can be designed to fit everyone’s needs. Again, I will always emphasize it isn’t for everyone. But for those that identify with this… you are seen.

I am the luckiest woman in the world to have such

I am the luckiest woman in the world to have such amazing friends that send the most thoughtful and stellar handmade gifts 🥹💞💞💞💞 I have a full unboxing video getting edited and posted tomorrow! I love you guys!
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#sexpodcast #sexpositivity #artistsoninstagram #writersofinstagram #sexpodcast #sexology #sexologist

It’s been years since I’ve hosted a live webin

It’s been years since I’ve hosted a live webinar and it’s time to bring them back! July 28th at 10am PST I’m teaching D/s Fundamentals.
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Please check out my public post on Patreon for more info including the book recommendations for this webinar :)

I am so happy I got to hang with Luna from @subgui

I am so happy I got to hang with Luna from @subguide ! We chatted about all things D/s and so much more! Go check out her latest book and the newest podcast out now!
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#letstalkaboutsex #sexpodcast #pleasure #sexology #kinkcommunity #sexpositiveculture

I am so happy I got to see the amazingly talented

I am so happy I got to see the amazingly talented and beautiful woman @ryn_says ! Everyone at the AMNE that I had the opportunity to meet are such incredible humans! I Can’t wait to see you again!
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#anme #sexpositivity #sexpo #sexologist #pleasureactivism #sexpodcast #letstalkaboutsex

I’ve been working on writing more articles that

I had such an awesome time with the s3xy-smart a C

I had such an awesome time with the s3xy-smart a Christian Pan! Check out the newest episode here and there’s a very special “After Hours” segment just for Patreon subscribers! @christianpanerotica
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#podcastersofinstagram #sexpodcast #authorsofinstagram #sexpositivity #sexpositiveculture #lgtb #queerartist

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