Wow, it has been a roller coaster of a week! I hit 100K followers on TikTok and inadvertently found myself in vanilla TikTok!? Just what exactly is a service submissive? And let's just chat a bit about the public shaming I experienced as a submissive within the world of social media. I also ... VIEW POST
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Ep 23. Subtly Kinky – Show & Tell – Disneyland, Domination Stickers, & More!
This is the podcast version of the video show & tell on YouTube! I get asked all the time about subtle ways my Dom and I express our D/s dynamic. We are always looking out for nods to our kinky side and utilizing under-the-radar tactics to continue practicing our lifestyle 24/7. ... VIEW POST
Ep. 22 – Giving Your Q’s My A’s! First Kinks, Finding a Mentor/Mistress/Dom, and More!
This video is a total mixed back of kink! I recently asked my followers on IG to send in their kinky questions and holy cheese balls, did you guys deliver! Everything from my first kinks, finding a Mistress/Dom, anal play and douching, and so much more! Let's get a bit dirty, shall ... VIEW POST
Ep 21. Service Submission, Subtle D/s, and The Sexie Show
In this video podcast episode, I talk about service submission and what it means to us, my recent appearance on the Sexie Show, and the subtle ways my Dom and I express our D/s lifestyle while managing our jobs and family lives. Don't forget to check out our behind the scene's "Day ... VIEW POST
The Awkward Giveaway! Unboxing of Awkward Toaster’s Giveaway Loot!
Hey folx! I am so happy to bring you this little video! Awkward Toaster on TikTok and IG did a fantastic giveaway and I won! Join me on my first unboxing journey! And don't forget to check out all the great stuff that Awkward Toaster has going on! Follow his TikTok Here: ... VIEW POST
Ep. 20 – Consent, Life, and Twitch! Warning, this is a HEAVY episode
Hey there! I had a crazy week! From watching porn for 3 days straight with 60 other people, learning about SESTA/FOSTA and how it's changing TOS and harming everyone in the sexuality field from models to therapists and educators. Then, we start getting deep into how to talk to your ... VIEW POST
Ep. 19 – Filthy Shakespeare – A Romp Through the Classics
Hey there folx! Today's smut review is brought to you by the late great William Shakespeare! One of my favorite bookstores finds is a great commentary and breakdown by Pauline Kiernan about all the filthy meanings behind Shakespeare's most iconic sonnets and prose. I add my own ... VIEW POST
Ep. 18 – Can I Rant for a Moment? – Let’s Talk about Life
Hey there guys! This week has been a doozy... Can we sit and chat about it? In this episode, I kick and back and get vulnerable for a bit... D/s can get tough when balancing an increasingly busy life, even for those of us who are veterans in the BDSM world and my Dom and I are going ... VIEW POST
Ep. 17 – Kink and Taboo History: Cleopatra’s Box-O-Bees Gladiator Sweat, Snugglepupping, & More!
How about a history lesson? I promise it won't be boring! Get your fruit snacks and juice boxes folx... this is a history lesson you won't forget ;) (Warning... THIS IS FOR ADULTS ONLY!) We get down and dirty with Ancient Egyptian sexuality, Greek and Roman sex tokens, the girls who bought Gladiator ... VIEW POST
Slut-Shame, Sex-Shame, and Kink-Shame – The Experience of Trying to Live Authentically in World of Sexual Bullies
Sex is part of who we are as humans...let’s start with that. Every human is here as a result of a sexual act happening in some way. Our society is the result of successful procreation for centuries and yet American culture is simultaneously obsessed with purity, while in the shower or behind closed ... VIEW POST