Hey there all! One of the questions I get asked the most is "How do I find a Mistress or Dom as a life partner?" and quite often, there is a misunderstanding of the differences between looking for a romantic life-partner who will share a D/s dynamic with you vs. a trained practitioner who ... VIEW POST
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VLOG: Breast Aug Part 2: 3 Week Update
This is my 3-week update! I'll cover surgery day, post-surgery experiences, surprises along the way, and how I'm feeling at 3 weeks post-surgery, and how I'm handling my Factor 5 Lidein disorder with recovery. I understand this topic is controversial and only ask for kindness and respect as ... VIEW POST

Ep26: Masturbation May! Let’s talk about Masturbation and Porn!
In this episode, I cover the amazing subject of masturbation! From making time to feel sexy, how erotic dance can help anyone get into their sexuality, to my personal joy with mutual masturbation! I also talk about some new discoveries such as body sex and creating a kink conversation ... VIEW POST

Ep. 25 – VLOG SPECIAL: Breast Augmentation Journey: Part 1 – Pre-Op
Disclaimer: This is my personal journey with getting a breast augmentation with a lift. I ask for kindness, compassion, and non-judgmental comments. I understand some may not like my choice, but please remember I am a human with feelings. This is a vulnerable topic to many. As a Doctor of ... VIEW POST

Ep 24. A Very Eclectic Episode: 100K Followers, Being a Service Sub, & Surgery
Wow, it has been a roller coaster of a week! I hit 100K followers on TikTok and inadvertently found myself in vanilla TikTok!? Just what exactly is a service submissive? And let's just chat a bit about the public shaming I experienced as a submissive within the world of social media. I also ... VIEW POST

Ep 23. Subtly Kinky – Show & Tell – Disneyland, Domination Stickers, & More!
This is the podcast version of the video show & tell on YouTube! I get asked all the time about subtle ways my Dom and I express our D/s dynamic. We are always looking out for nods to our kinky side and utilizing under-the-radar tactics to continue practicing our lifestyle 24/7. ... VIEW POST

Ep. 22 – Giving Your Q’s My A’s! First Kinks, Finding a Mentor/Mistress/Dom, and More!
This video is a total mixed back of kink! I recently asked my followers on IG to send in their kinky questions and holy cheese balls, did you guys deliver! Everything from my first kinks, finding a Mistress/Dom, anal play and douching, and so much more! Let's get a bit dirty, shall ... VIEW POST

Ep 21. Service Submission, Subtle D/s, and The Sexie Show
In this video podcast episode, I talk about service submission and what it means to us, my recent appearance on the Sexie Show, and the subtle ways my Dom and I express our D/s lifestyle while managing our jobs and family lives. Don't forget to check out our behind the scene's "Day ... VIEW POST

The Awkward Giveaway! Unboxing of Awkward Toaster’s Giveaway Loot!
Hey folx! I am so happy to bring you this little video! Awkward Toaster on TikTok and IG did a fantastic giveaway and I won! Join me on my first unboxing journey! And don't forget to check out all the great stuff that Awkward Toaster has going on! Follow his TikTok Here: ... VIEW POST

Ep. 20 – Consent, Life, and Twitch! Warning, this is a HEAVY episode
Hey there! I had a crazy week! From watching porn for 3 days straight with 60 other people, learning about SESTA/FOSTA and how it's changing TOS and harming everyone in the sexuality field from models to therapists and educators. Then, we start getting deep into how to talk to your ... VIEW POST